Many of you know
that since we have been married, we have lived in four different
states. The place that we lived the longest was in New York, and we
lived there until Lukas was 3. While in NY, we developed friendships
with some great people who we still love and look forward to spending
time with. One of these families is the Rau
family who has a little girl named Hannah that I used to babysit a
couple times each week. She and Lukas are 2 months apart in age and
have literally known each other since the nursery. As toddlers, they
were best buddies. Lukas still calls Hannah his girlfriend even though
we haven't seen her in a year.
Today was the
first time I thought that Lukas' eye was starting to wander(Keep reading
Amy). There is a little girl named Corey on his soccer team, and the
two of them were sitting out one quarter together. The entire time,
they were paying more attention to each other than anything else. They
were hitting and kicking and wrestling back and forth the entire time.
Corey's mom jokingly asked us if this is what dating looks like at this
age.
After the game,
we went to Grinder's for lunch, and I asked Lukas what he thought of
Corey. He said she was nice and that she is his friend. I told him
that his cousin Zack has a girlfriend knowing that he always wants to be
like Zack(who is only 7, by the way). He said, "Well, I have a
girlfriend too Mom. Remember(said in that tone of voice reserved for
when your parent is totally stupid)? It's Hannah." Right. "Yeah, but
do you think Corey is cute?" "Maaaah-mmmm, Corey's just a friend.
Hannah will always be my girlfriend."
What I'm
wondering is how long can this last? He sees Hannah once a year at most
right now, but is totally loyal to her. Hannah's eye may be
wandering(Is it Amy?), but he doesn't know that. I'm thinking that as
long as he has a girlfriend who lives in another state, then I don't
have to worry about him wanting to hang out with a girlfriend here,
right? I know he's only 5 right now, but what I'm hoping is that we can
keep this going for years. Until now, I have not encouraged it, but
maybe I should. Anyone think this fascination with Hannah can last
until he's 21?
There is something to be said about the concept of arranged marriages.
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