We are not the
kind of people who push our belief systems on other people. We have
clear convictions and the people who know us know that we aren't going
to make choices that go against those convictions. I tell you this
because the subject that I am writing about today is Halloween. You
see, we have never allowed our children to go door-to-door to go
trick-or-treating. We don't decorate to celebrate the holiday, and when
the kids ask about wearing Halloween costumes, we remind them that,
while they get to dress up, the costumes are dress-up costumes, not
Halloween costumes. We did carve jack-o-lanterns last year, but we are
fans of the pumpkin gospel, not the traditional scary-faced ogre-like
Jacks that you see on many front porches and in photographs. We
down-play the scary and play up the fun while educating them as to why
we make that choice. One year we went to the zoo, which was decorated
in non-scary fall decor. Last year we went to a church festival. Our
kids are not deprived at all, but they have an understanding that this
day is not a "holy" day, or holiday, as it is usually esteemed in our
society.
With that
explanation said, please know that we have many friends and relatives
who go all-out on Halloween. That is fine with us. We just save the
big celebrating for Christmas, Easter, and birthdays in our family.
It's our personal choice. Our kids wear costumes nearly every day, so
the only real draw for Halloween is the candy that is rationed to them
anyway.
Those of you who
know us will hopefully find the rest of this story entertaining since
you know how we might explain this concept to our children. Eric took
the kids somewhere the other day when Lukas noticed a house totally
decked-out with Halloween blow-ups, lights, jack-o-lanterns, and the
whole nine yards. From the back seat (which is where so many great
things come out of our children's mouths), Eric heard Lukas say in
exasperation, "Why do so many people choose to respect the devil's
holiday?" The funny part for us is that we have never explained this
issue to our children in this way. It was a moment for us in which we
realized that they actually get some of the things we say to them and a
laughable moment as well because of the way he worded it. What 6 year
old speaks that way? Ours does. Of course, nothing tops when he was
three and got frustrated with his geotracks. When I asked him what was
wrong he said, "My train is not operating correctly!" Operating
correctly. We are not people of extensive vocabularies, but Lukas seems
to pick up on everything we say. It entertains us, to say the least,
and we hope that it entertains you a little as well.
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