"We're not sure"
or "I don't know" or "probably through middle school at least" is what I
usually answer when I'm asked the never-ending, often repeated
question, "How long do you plan to homeschool?" Everyone, that is,
everyone who doesn't homeschool, is so concerned with this question,
and, to tell you the truth, I'm really not all that concerned. My
concern lies within my own heart. I'm not sure that I'm being
completely truthful when I say that I don't know how long we'll
homeschool, and I've been searching my heart because of this.
How long do we
intend to homeschool our children? My 100% truthful answer is that we
desire and intend to homeschool them until they go to college. I don't
really know of an ideal time for them to enter the public school
setting. Middle school? That seems crazy to me. Middle school tends
to be the worst time in most people's lives. Kids are cruel at that
age, and I know that many middle school students are so caught up in
what other people are doing or saying that their educational experience
is hindered. It sometimes haunts them for years beyond middle school.
Students enter high school with battered self-esteem. Do I want that
for my kids? Nope, so the ideal setting for middle school is at my
dining room table.
And how about
high school? The biggest arguments that opponents of homeschooling give
is that children will not have the same opportunities for
extracurricular activities. Translation: Children will not get to
overwork and stretch themselves as thin as humanly possible while
still trying to figure out how to grow up, understand their faith, and
become successful at simply living. I know that there are countless
extracurriculars in the high school setting that my children could
participate in, but they can participate in just as many activities as
part of a homeschooling community, which is a fact that many people
don't realize. Why do they need to have all those activities when
focusing on the one or two that truly interest them makes so much more
sense? Homeschooling provides more opportunities for students to serve
their churches and communities, and they're be able to work part-time
jobs during traditional school hours. Job experience, community
service, and focus on their own interests seems to make much more sense
then sending them to high school where so much of the learning is
hindered by peer pressure, lack of proper funding, and other negative
influences.
Do I expect
my children to go through school at home and then survive college
without faltering? I can hope for this in a perfect world, but we live
in a fallen world. Personally, I think that the age of 18 is a legal
age for adulthood, but not necessarily the age when a person is mature
enough to make adult decisions. Because of that, I hope to be able to
guide my children throughout their college years and to help them in the
process of becoming an adult. I won't just throw them into the world
and expect them to make it, so that argument doesn't fly with me
either. Borrowing a phrase from my alma mater,
I want my children to become "world changers" in every way. Throwing
them into a difficult world without guidance seems like a ridiculous
idea to me.
So, the next time
someone asks me this question, I'm going to be 100% truthful and tell
them that we intend to homeschool our children until they graduate from
high school. I'm not going to say that our decision won't change as our
children grow and we evaluate each of their individual needs, but, at
this point in the journey, this is our plan. Plans are made to be
changed, and we understand that, but we intend to do what God leads us
to do. With Him leading us, I have no doubt that our children will
become successful adults.
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