Have you noticed
that sometimes even Christians are willing to go along with the crowd if
it sounds close to the right thing to do? I've been thinking about
this for a while now, and it is something that really bothers me. What
brought this on? The gossip media splashed Jamie Lynne Spears all over
every tabloid in America. I can't stand tabloids, and I don't like
gossip magazines of all sorts even if they aren't really considered to
be tabloids, but that isn't really what this blog is about.
I don't know much
about Jamie Lynne Spears, but I think that anyone who can read knows
who her sister is. Her mother has become quite famous as the mother of
two superstar daughters. Can you imagine having to parent high-profile,
imperfect (just like the rest of us) teenage daughters in the spotlight
of Hollywood and all the world? I make enough parenting mistakes as it
is. I definitely wouldn't want the world to see every one of them on
their television or at the check-out counter at Wal-mart.
I'm not here to
judge Lynne Spears because I don't see myself as a better parent than
she is. Do I think she made mistakes? Sure, but, as I said, so have
I. Do I know what those mistakes were? Nope. It's gossip, America,
just gossip. My hope as a parent is that the positive things I say and
model for my children will have a more lasting impact on them and their
future choices than the times I have fallen short.
So, get to the
point, right? Here's the big point. The evangelical Christian
community is clearly staunch in its stance on life. We believe that
life is God's to give and God's to take in any and all circumstances, or
at least most of us do. There are Christians and other pro-life
advocates who march on Washington annually every January. They look for
opportunities to throw themselves into the media to help get their
message out. I'm not saying that these are bad things as that is not
what this is about. I'm just drawing a picture for you because of what
many of these same people are now doing to the Spears family.
Many people,
Christian and non-Christian alike, immediately started attacking Lynne
Spears and her parenting skills upon the news that her 16 year old
daughter, Jamie Lynne who stars on Nickelodeon's Zoey 101, is pregnant.
I don't know if she handled the info correctly. I do know there are a
lot of rumors because I can see them while I'm standing in the check-out
aisle at any store. Do I think that Jamie Lynne should continue to be a
role model for young girls? Hmm...well, that is definitely a topic for
another blog.
Here's what I
don't get. Shouldn't someone stand up and commend Lynne Spears for
supporting her daughter's decision to have her baby? Are we really
naive enough that we think that hundreds of other teen stars haven't
faced this exact dilemma and chosen to end their babies' lives?
Obviously, Lynne has done something right , probably more than most
parents who live in the limelight, because what her daughter is doing
could very possibly end her career. It will change her life forever.
Any parent knows that your life is never the same once a baby enters the
picture, and while she will probably have extra help from a nanny,
she's still taking responsibility for her actions. She is going to have
her baby. She's not going to abort it like most Hollywood teens. Who
taught her to take that kind of responsibility? My guess is that it
came from her mother.
So, in my humble
opinion, Lynne Spears must have done something right. Taking
responsibility for a mistake this huge is not something that we see
happen in the media very often. She should be proud of herself and of
her daughter's mature choice in this situation.
And those
pro-life Christians that I mentioned? Yep, I'm one of them. Those of
you who know me know that I am and have been since I understood what
abortion was. BUT...instead of looking for opportunities to bash
Hollywood and the main-stream media, try noticing the opportunity that
is staring you in the face. A good thing just happened in Hollywood. A
baby's life was saved for all of America to see.
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